Ever made a New Year’s resolution so massive, it needed its own zip code?
You know the type:
“I’m going to work out every day, drink kale, run marathons, meditate, sleep 8 hours, and never eat another carb again!”
Cue two weeks later...
You’re face-deep in a pizza, your yoga mat is collecting dust under your bed, and your new running shoes have only touched the pavement once.
Don’t worry — you’re not lazy, weak, or doomed.
You just fell into the trap of big goals with no backbone.
The truth?
Big goals are sexy.
Tiny habits get stuff done.
Motivation Is a Terrible Roommate
Here’s a myth we all love to believe:
“If I just stay motivated, I’ll reach my goal.”
Unfortunately, motivation is like that flaky roommate who says they’ll take out the trash... but disappears when the garbage is leaking lasagna water.
Motivation feels great at 6am on January 1st.
Less so when it’s cold, dark, and your toddler threw cereal across the living room.
That’s where tiny habits come in.
They’re not flashy. They don’t get applause.
But they do show up. Rain or shine. Tired or energized. Kale or cake.
The Domino Effect (Without the Toppling Chaos)
Imagine lining up tiny dominoes — barely bigger than your pinky nail.
Now imagine that first domino knocking down one that’s 50% larger... and that one tipping the next... and so on... until it’s crashing into a domino the size of a refrigerator.
That’s what happens with habits.
One tiny action — “I’ll drink water before coffee” — leads to:
- More energy
- A better workout
- Less brain fog
- Fewer regret-fueled cookie binges at 9pm
It’s boring. It’s small.
But it’s powerful in a way that big, unsustainable changes can never be.
But Tiny Habits Don’t Show Progress Fast…
Exactly.
That’s why they work.
Let me explain.
We’re addicted to instant results. We want to do a 20-minute ab workout and wake up with a six-pack. (Spoiler alert: only happens if you're a superhero or a CGI character.)
But real change? It’s like planting a seed.
For weeks, it looks like nothing is happening.
Then one day, BOOM — there’s a damn tree in your backyard.
Here’s what happens when you trust the slow-burn:
- You build identity — you become the kind of person who moves every day
- You reduce friction — the habit becomes as automatic as brushing your teeth
- You create momentum — and momentum makes success feel inevitable
Systems Beat Willpower Every Time
Willpower is like your phone battery — useful, but drains quickly.
Systems, on the other hand, are solar-powered. Once they’re in place, they run forever.
Here’s what systems look like in real life:
- Laying out workout clothes the night before
- Keeping a dumbbell near your desk to sneak in 5 reps between meetings
- Habit-stacking: doing 10 squats after brushing your teeth
- Using a calendar alert to remind you to walk after dinner
No heroic willpower required. Just simple, repeatable actions.
Tiny Habits That Actually Work
If you’re thinking, “OK, fine. But where do I start?”
Good news: I made you a list.
(No kale required. Unless you’re into that sort of thing.)
Try one of these this week:
- Put on your workout shoes every morning — even if you don’t work out
- Do 10 air squats while your coffee brews
- Leave a water bottle in your car and sip it before walking into work
- Set a “move alarm” every 90 minutes during the day
- Spend 1 minute stretching before bed
- Walk around the block after dinner (drag your kids or your dog or just your tired soul)
Start small. So small it feels almost stupid.
Because stupid-easy gets done. And done beats perfect.
Final Thought: The Magic Is in the Doing
You don’t need a massive overhaul.
You don’t need motivation to slap you out of bed every morning like a motivational drill sergeant.
You need tiny, laughably simple habits that anchor you to the version of yourself you’re becoming.
Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.
And keep doing it.
That’s how transformation actually happens.
Not in the thunderclap of inspiration — but in the whisper of daily action.
~Coach Christie