Most people don’t struggle with fitness because they’re lazy or unmotivated.
They struggle because of a story they’ve been telling themselves for years.
“I’m just not consistent.”
“I’ve never been athletic.”
“I’m bad at nutrition.”
“I always fall off.”
Over time, those thoughts stop being observations and start becoming identity.
And once something feels like identity, it feels permanent.
But here’s the truth most people miss:
You’re not your story.
You’re the narrator.
How Stories Quietly Run the Show
Stories work because they sound reasonable.
If you believe you’re “bad at routines,” skipping workouts feels expected.
If you believe weekends are a wash, Friday becomes permission.
If nutrition feels all-or-nothing, one imperfect meal ends the day.
The story gives you an out before you realize you’re taking it.
And most of these stories didn’t start as lies. They started as patterns - busy seasons, injuries, stressful years.
Patterns don’t have to become life sentences.
Movement Is an Identity Issue, Not a Motivation Issue
Motivation comes and goes. Identity sticks.
People who train consistently don’t feel fired up every day. They simply don’t debate whether movement belongs in their life.
They’ve changed the story:
“I’m someone who moves, even when it’s not perfect.”
“I show up because future-me appreciates it.”
“I don’t need ideal conditions for this to count.”
That isn’t blind optimism. It’s ownership.
Nutrition Stories Might Be the Loudest
Nutrition carries the most baggage.
“I’ve tried everything.”
“I’m either strict or totally off.”
“I know what to do, I just don’t do it.”
Here’s the accountability part, with compassion:
If your story says effort is pointless, your brain will prove it right.
If progress only counts when it’s extreme, you’ll ignore the small choices that actually create change.
Sustainable nutrition doesn’t come from more rules.
It comes from rewriting the story to allow practice instead of perfection.
“I’m learning.”
“I’m building skills.”
“One choice doesn’t define the day.”
That’s not lowering standards. That’s raising consistency. And consistency is what creates change.
Awareness Alone Isn’t Enough
Noticing the story matters, but awareness without action still keeps you stuck.
When you catch yourself saying:
“I’ll start when things calm down.”
“This week doesn’t really count.”
“I just need to feel ready.”
Pause.
Ask:
Is this true, or is it just familiar?
Then take one small action that contradicts it.
No overhaul. No reset. Just a quiet rewrite.
You Don’t Need a New Life, Just a New Narrative
Lasting change doesn’t come from discipline or willpower.
It comes from refusing to keep arguing for the same limitations.
You’re allowed to outgrow old stories.
You’re allowed to build this slowly.
You’re allowed to change.
So when that familiar line pops up, try this instead:
“That might have been true once. But I’m writing a different chapter now.”
Then move your body.
Fuel it well.
Repeat.
That’s how the story actually changes.
Need more guidance? CrossFit Mokena is here for you.
~Coach Christie